The Cary Family became the owners of the village of clovelly along with Cockington, I am related to them as cary married into the Boleyn lines which made them my cousins. Along with mother being a spencer whom are related to Lady Diana Spence within my mothers ancestry.
A collection of resources of research relating to the Cary family of torquay Devon.
One by Leslie retalick and I mention this name due to an Annalise retalick who sold me my horse pixie.. I will further research how retalick is also within my family tree in due course. When I find the links and add when I discover their links to the Carys.
The Cary Family in India
India, the jewel in the crown of the British Empire, was a place of opportunity for those seeking to make their fortune, and was a particular magnet for the younger sons of the English landed gentry. Members of the Cary family of Torre Abbey were no exception, as the chance discovery of a set of photographs proves.
When George Cary IV died in 1828, Torre Abbey was inherited by his eldest nephew Henry Cary. As Henry’s younger brother Bernard had missed out on the inheritance there was probably little to keep him in England and he decided to try his luck in India. He joined the Indian Army, rising through the ranks to become Lieutenant-Colonel. He and his wife, Eliza Castelli, had two children, Sulyarde Bernard (1847–1915) and Eliza (1838–1908), both born in India. Bernard and his wife later moved to Austria, but their two children stayed on in India, spending most of their lives there.
Many of the well-to-do British in India spent their winters in the larger cities, with a seemingly endless round of receptions, parties and other social occasions. However, the searingly hot Indian summers proved too much for those from northern climes, and those who could afford to do so moved for the summer months to the cooler hill towns, such as Simla and Darjeeling. Getting to these places often involved many days of difficult travel along rough cart tracks, something that caused a great deal of grumbling in high places, even the Viceroy complaining. Eliza Cary had married Franklin Prestage, an agent for the Eastern Bengal Railway Company, and it was he who promoted the idea of the construction of a railway to Darjeeling, the ‘Queen of the Hill Towns’. His scheme found favour with the Bengal government as not only would it cut out days of arduous travel, but it would also encourage trade and reduce the cost of goods being transported to Darjeeling. The line was built to a narrow gauge of just two feet and was very steeply graded, having to rely on a number of spiral loops and other devices to gain height in places. Franklin Prestage, although in overall control of the line’s construction, needed another engineer on site and Sulyarde Bernard Cary, Franklin’s brother-in-law, was appointed chief engineer, a position he held until well after the line’s completion. When he retired, he was presented with a parchment scroll from his colleagues, contained in a magnificent solid Indian silver case, now in the Torre Abbey collection, although I don’t think it’s currently on display.
An album of photographs came up for sale in the USA a while ago and show that the Cary and Prestage families maintained a lavish lifestyle, in keeping with their social position. The photos were mostly taken by Anna Prestage, one of Franklin and Eliza’s daughters. I contacted Torre Abbey but for some reason the then authorities felt they had no relevance to the Abbey, even though included in the set was what is probably the earliest known photograph of Torre Abbey, taken in about 1865. Never have understood that! Regrettably, I couldn’t afford the asking price personally for the albums but the vendor was kind enough to allow me to purchase several of the more relevant photographs as a small separate collection. Among those that I managed to save is a view of ‘Uncle Cary’s house’ near Calcutta, the winter home of Sulyarde Bernard Cary. It’s a most imposing residence, standing on the banks of an ornamental watercourse.
Sulyarde Bernard Cary had married Elizabeth Jane Hindmarsh, with whom he had a son, Launcelot Sulyarde Robert Cary. Elizabeth died on board a passenger ship plying between Aden and Colombo in March 1892 and was buried at sea. Sulyarde didn’t remain a widower for long, marrying Georgeanna Emma Dix, the daughter of George Frederick Dix and Emma Churchill, in Bombay in 1893. They had a daughter, Hilda Dix Cary, born in 1895 in Darjeeling. There are two photographs of her in the set I purchased, one of her as a baby and one in a family group with her parents and her elder step-brother, Launcelot. He had been born on 28 December 1890 in Darjeeling and was baptised on 30 January 1891. Like most children of the British elite he was educated in England, being sent to the Beaumont Roman Catholic School near Windsor. His cousin, Franklin Prestage junior was also sent to England as a boy, to Stonyhurst College in Lancashire, the most prestigious catholic school in the country.
Due to the length of time it took to reach India, those sent to school in England rarely returned home except for the long summer holidays, so in the Christmas and Easter breaks, the Cary and Prestage children would probably have travelled to Devon to stay at Torre Abbey. Among the photographs in the set is one of Franklin Prestage junior taken at a studio in Torquay, so he must have been staying at Torre Abbey at the time. There are also several photographs of Launcelot, including one of him as an infant aged 17 months and one aged four, both taken in Darjeeling. Colonel Lucius Cary, who had inherited Torre Abbey on the death of elder brother Robert in 1898, had no surviving children, so it was arranged that when Colonel Lucius died, Torre Abbey would pass to his cousin, Sulyarde Bernard Cary. However, Sulyarde himself died a few months prior to Colonel Lucius, so young Launcelot became the next in line. There is another photograph of him aged ten years old, holding a military helmet and clutching a toy rifle. This is a particularly poignant picture, as Launcelot was killed at the Battle of the Somme in the First World War, when he was serving as a 2nd Lieutenant with the Devonshire regiment. He was only 25, and had inherited Torre Abbey less than three weeks earlier, and with his death the direct male line of the Cary family of Torre Abbey came to an end.
These photographs have opened a window onto a part of the Cary family history that was previously little known and prove that at least some members of the family were willing to venture out into the wider world and, with the construction of the Darjeeling Himalayan Railway, become genuine Empire Builders!
This is all written by Leslie retalick.
Other links with information and research availble about the Cary family.
https://www.caryarms.co.uk/about-us/history
https://wearesouthdevon.com/discovering-the-cary-family.../
https://discovery.nationalarchives.gov.uk/details/c/F22647
https://murreyandblue.wordpress.com/.../give-the-carys-a.../
https://www.mytribe101.com/surname/cary
https://www.caryfamily.co.uk
https://www.torbay.gov.uk/media/1841/libcockington.pdf
https://archive.org/.../houseofstuartcar00watk_djvu.txt
https://www.seekingmyroots.com/members/files/G001197.pdf
https://www.cockington-forge.com/history-and-articles/
https://cockingtoncourt.org/visit/the-village/
Note By Abbe Devere:
For me personally I found a love with Cockington court in Torquay back in the early 2000s and wanted to work here in some way or another I found myself working here for 4 years being their official facepainter for their annual events.
Many times I walk my dog in the gardens and again was another place we( my kids dad) were looking at to get married, at the time they did not have this opportunity until I proposed it to the lady in charge who soon took the opportunity to reform it as a registry office. My friend kayley got married to her husband Russell about 5 years ago here. So that for me is so lovely. (She, they both, was my saving grace and helped me through my hardest times)
I also discovered a beautiful village called Clovelly when I took the kids on another (one of many) waterfall searches..we found St Audrey's Bay which I have posted photos of here in the past and the beautiful little village that was owned again by my Cary’s. At that time I had no clue to my family links here.. its a white feather walk where I am taken to these places on a wim.
The Carys are related to me through the Howard's, The boleyns as Sir William Carey, Esq (Knight)
1500–1528
BIRTH ABT. 1500 • William Carey (abt. 1495 – 22 June 1528)[3] was a courtier and favourite of King Henry VIII of England. He served the king as a Gentleman of the Privy chamber, and Esquire of the Body to the King. His wife, Mary Boleyn, is known to history as a mistress of King Henry VIII.
His mother was either name Elenor or Margaret Spencer, Her father was Sir Robert Spencer, of Spencercombe, in the English County of Devon, by his wife Lady Eleanor Beaufort.
DEATH 22 JUN 1528 • Gloucestershire, England, (Information from Ancestry birth deaths and marriages).His granddaughter married into the Scrope family which relates to Castle Combe Scropes, mopre on that later. Other families tied to the Cary's are: The Spencers and association with carews and Briwere lines. There is all so much history that I am yet to discover and link this with my Torre Abbey information whom I have just spoken to as I'm going on another ancestry search taking all the information in and art that has been passed down from the current Cary family, I need a special visit to get to the secret galleries, so that is still yet to come.
http://www.torre-abbey.org.uk/
To be continued...........
The name Carey, along with its other derivations, yields a long and illustrious history in North Western Europe, specifically in what is now the British Isles, the Republic of Ireland, and North West France.
As a surname it has two distinct origins: Normandy (North West France) and Ireland - both heavily influenced by ancient Celtic history. While the considerable influence of the ancient Celts on Irish culture is well known, their role in the early history of North West France is often underestimated. Early historical records indicate that as a name Carey or Cary evolved in Britainy in part from the Celtic word 'cari' (also spelt 'kari'), meaning 'pleasant stream'.
The Irish Careys were descendants of the O'Ciardhas of Kildare (or of Killkenny according to some records), a powerful Irish sect situated near Dublin. Many of their descendants travelled down to the Southern coast of Ireland, where the clan name was changed to 'Carey'. Here the Careys settled before emigrating later to South West England, and then to other parts of England and the Americas starting at the end of the 17th century.
The Norman Careys, like many other families from Normandy, were most probably decendants of a variety of earlier groups who migrated through North West Europe. Most notably, the Norman Careys would probably have had Gaulic and Celtic ancestry, as well as Norse, Germanic and Teutonic heritage. In particular, there was a strong tradition of interplay between Norman and Celtic societies - both positive and all too often negative. This was partly due to their geographical proximity, and partly due to common cultural themes that remained in place for many generations.
The Norman name was originally spelt 'de Kari', which in turn translates to 'of Kari'. When translated into Celtic this would have meant 'of the pleasant stream'. However, within Normandy itself it is feasible that the name referenced a specific geographical area, possibly the Manor of Carrey in Lisieux.
There is no record of a de Kari arriving with William the Conquerer and his knights during the invasion of England in 1066, or of any Careys before this time. It is therefore likely that the Norman Carey ancestors arrived after the successful invasion.
The earliest English mainland Carey on record is a Norman knight and Lord named Adam de Kari, who was most probably born between 1170 and 1180, and was the first recorded occupant of Castle Cary in Somerset. The fact that de Kari governed Castle Cary strongly suggests that either the de Kari family was of noble Norman stock, or that the patriarch of the family was highly regarded as a politician and soldier. Given the early and rapid emergence of the Carys in Anglo-Norman culture the former of these theories is highly probable.
Between the twelfth and the fifteenth centuries the Kari name evolved into Kary and then Cary, as the Norman invaders began to adopt some indigenous Anglo-Saxon mannerisms. Like other prominent Norman families, the Carys of this time exerted considerable influence in the evolving social hierarchy, especially throughout the counties of Somerset and Wiltshire.
In addition, around this time emerged the first reliable evidence of a Carey line living on Guernsey in the Channel Islands. A Jean Carey is recorded as being 'alive in 1393'. Other evidence seems to indicate that the Guernsey line descended directly from Normandy, and not from the English Carey line.
Although the Carys of Somerset held no direct lineage to the English throne, they did hold some influence with several English monarchs. During the reign of Henry V, Sir Robert Cary (born 1375) won wide-spread admiration for defeating a highly proficient (and somewhat troublesome) knight. In the sixteenth century his descendant William Cary married Mary Boleyn, the sister of King Henry VIII's late wife Anne. William's son Henry (1524-1596) became a respected soldier and diplomat, and Henry's eldest son George was given the title of 'Baron Hunsdon' by the Queen Elizabeth I. Also on record during this era is one Thomas Cary, his name appearing in the Assixe Rolls of London in 1375.
Over the subsequent three centuries the Carey ancestors lost some direct influence in the English aristocracy, but maintained a more progressive presence through academic and creative works. Indeed, Henry Carey (1760-1839) is accredited with composing "God Save the King" - the English national anthem, while one of his distant cousins William Carey (1761-1834) helped to form the Baptist Missionary Society.
The relationship between the Irish and Norman Carey/Cary lines is difficult to establish. Through the centuries the Cary spelling has been common place in South West England, specifically around Castle Cary and the river Cary. The proliferation of Careys in Southern Ireland and their steady filtration over to England starting around the 16th century suggests that the origins of the two lines are quite distinct. However, name standardization, a general lack of lineage data, and the tendancy to spell words and names phonetically from the 18th century onwards complicates matters somewhat, and makes it very difficult for many families to trace their true ancestry.
During the eighteenth, nineteenth and early twentieth centuries many Careys migrated from England and Southern and Western Ireland to the Americas, making Carey a less common surname in English society. More recently both British and Irish bearers of the Carey name have increased in number, and the American Careys have boomed. Today there are more than 110,000 Careys World-wide. Owners of other variations of the name are fewer in number but still significant.
Written by Andrew Carey, March, 2001.
Last revised by Andrew Carey, February, 2018.
COAT OF ARMS:Bent sable, embossed with three roses of the field, on argent. English Origin.TRANSLATION:White argent for peace and sincerity;
Black sable for constancy;
Three roses for beauty and grace.DERIVATIONS:Cary, Carey, O'Carey, Carrey, Cari, Carew, O'Carew, Karry, Carry, Karey, de KariCREST:A swan argent, wings endorsedMOTTO:"Sine Macula"
Norman translation: "Without Blemish"
Latin translation: "Without Stain"

Sources:
- The Historical Research Center: Carey Family Name History.
- List of Norman knights involved in the invasion of England in 1066.
- Geographical maps of Northern France and South West England.
- Biographical information in Wikipedia.org.
The Cary family in England : Cary, Henry Grosvenor, 1829-1905 : Free Download, Borrow, and Streaming : Internet Archive